“The challenge he poses is to discern in the midst of our darkness the light of God…How radically new my life would be if I were willing to move beyond blaming to proclaiming the works of God in our midst. I don’t think it has much to do with the exterior of life. All human beings have their tragedies – death, depression, betrayal, poverty, separation, loss, and so on. We seldom have much control over them. But do we choose to live them as occasions to blame, or as occasions to see God at work?” – Henri Nouwen, 1996
In getting ready for retreats, one of the ideas that keeps coming back in conversation is the notion that each of us can choose to “be bitter or better,” that we can “choose to be right or kind.” Many great minds have stated this idea in various ways – each honing in on the same thing – we can not choose what happens to us, but we can choose how we react to it. Would it not be wonderful to choose to see things as leading us to the light, revealing part of God’s work?
Taken at Old Town Cemetery in Stirling, Scotland