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Episode 42: Burlesque and the Power of Vulnerability with Velvet O’Claire

Velvet O’Claire is a burlesque performer and it’s my pleasure to have her on the show to talk about burlesque and the magic of being vulnerable and authentic. Velvet had her start in Paris at Burlesque Moulin, and recently returned to the states after working in Paris. She’s a self described “gypsy entrepreneur,” and being a true multipassionate, she is interested in personal development, online business, performance, and the arts, in addition to burlesque.

Velvet O'Claire on Burlesque Dancing and the Power of Vulnerability. A great interview about femininity, being authentic, your journey, and following your heart. Click to listen or Pin to save for later.

I truly loved getting to speak with Velvet; there is so much about her that rings true to who I am that I immediately felt a┬áconnection. It was simply uncanny the way we gravitated to topics like Byron Katie and Brene Brown and personality types; I love it when that magic happens in an interview. I also really love what Velvet shares about the connection, power, and art of burlesque. It takes true courage to perform, to tell the stories of one’s heart through art, and to share on a stage in this manner. It’s beautiful and so deeply feminine; I admire Velvet and the work she does.

I must also say that I send the most heartfelt love to Velvet and her family and friends; she lives near Orlando, and the events at the Pulse night club have hit very close to home; she previously lived only blocks from Pulse for a couple of years. I share this episode with the most respect and reverence, and send prayers and love to the city, and for us all.

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Here’s what Velvet and I talk about in this episode:
[5:40] Velvet talks about her early sparks of joy as a child: story telling and theatre, reading, travel and imagination
[7:55] Paula reflects on that maybe the reason meditation, as an outlet, is on the rise in popularity is because we don’t have as much quiet time anymore
[8:45] Why Velvet meditates
[9:30] What Velvet does now as a self described “gypsy entrepreneur,” blending her many past careers and jobs, into burlesque.
[10:30] About being a “multi-potentialite,” or the kind of person who can not pick a single career path, because you have so many interests.
[10:55] Velvet talks about why she likes the Enneagram personality typing system (she is a 7: Enthusiast)
[11:55] Paula talks about why she loves the Myers-Briggs personality test (Paula is an ENFJ), and we talk about how it’s helpful to also understand the “shadow” side of our personality types
[13:00] Velvet talks about having a rough time over the past year or so as she turned 30
[13:42] Saturn’s Return – the cycle that happens for every person every 29.5 years as Saturn returns to the place it was when you were born; knowing that there is a tumultuous time right around the time one hits 30 made it easier for Velvet to sit with
[16:50] We talk about Byron Katie’s work, and “Loving What Is” – not fighting one’s present reality, but accepting what is. Velvet talks about how this book changed her life.
[18:10] What led Velvet to burlesque and why she loves it
[20:50] A short history of burlesque and the role it’s played in society (it started as a social critique of society and societal norms)
[22:00] Velvet explains element community among burlesque performers, including the Hall of Fame weekend that recently happened in Las Vegas
[24:10] Velvet’s thinking behind starting her own podcast (Burlesque Stripped Down), and how she’s maintained connections with the community after leaving Paris
[25:30] Paula reflects on how both life coaching and burlesque dancing are extremely vulnerable crafts / art forms
[26:10] Velvet talks about vulnerability and how it’s been her word for the last year (and how it’s been very hard)
[29:30] How the absence of the “Fourth Wall” (or the space that separates the audience from the performer) in burlesque makes it a very different art form from other types of stage work, but how there’s a connection and an energy between the burlesque performer and the audience.
[30:30] Another way of thinking about purpose vs passion as it applies to burlesque (instead of, in episode 34, with finding the right career)
[31:45] How “Multi-passionate” people are even more overwhelmed by the “Follow your Passion” noise that seems to be popular now; with so many passions, it’s not sustainable
[33:10] Kinky Boots (the Musical) and how the audience is also vulnerable
[34:10] How burlesque addresses both body positivity and gender identification and flexibility
[34:40] We talk about how Prince has been a huge influence on Velvet’s life, and how he challenged many of the stereotypical gender roles
[38:00] As we get older, we realize that there are people who will not like us, or our message, and being ok with that (and we reference Byron Katie’s “Other People’s Business” idea)
[39:10] How personal development and becoming an entrepreneur go hand in hand
[40:20] Why Velvet hasn’t been performing as much since she returned from Paris
[41:20] Why Paula didn’t blog at all when she was pregnant
[42:00} Velvet’s inspiration for starting her podcast, Burlesque Stripped Down
[45:00] Velvet’s thoughts on bringing your dream into action
[47:00] Velvet shares her three ways that you can jump start joy in your life

Velvet O'Claire on Burlesque and the Power of Vulnerability

Resources
Velvet O’Claire’s webiste
Velvet’s “Burlesque Stripped Down” Podcast site
Velvet’s podcast episode on Purpose vs Passion
Headspace App for meditating
Enneagram Personality Type Test (free)
Saturn’s Return
Byron Katie’s Loving What Is on Audible (you can listen for free when you sign up for the first time).
Byron Katie’s book “Loving What Is” (on Amazon)
Burlesque Moulin (Velvet’s troupe in Paris)
Brene Brown’s book “Rising Strong” (on Amazon)
Episode 34 with Laura Simms

How have you stretched out of your comfort zone and allowed vulnerability into your life?

 

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10 Comments

  • Reply
    Sheri
    June 14, 2016 at 4:35 am

    I have never met a burlesque dancer, or even actually seen a burlesque live show but would love to one day. I think anything that expresses your inner self in an art form is great.

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    Debra
    June 14, 2016 at 8:43 pm

    This sounds absolutely fascinating! I can’t wait to check out the podcast. I find this all interesting.

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    Amanda Love
    June 15, 2016 at 5:39 am

    I have only heard of the term ‘burlesque” but have never encountered anyone who’s done it. I’ll have to come back and listen to the entire podcast when I have some time.

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    Wendy
    June 15, 2016 at 10:01 am

    Like everyone else, I’ve never actually experienced a burlesque nor have I known anyone that has been involved with it. Her statement about vulnerability is interesting and makes me want to learn more.

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    Whitney S
    June 15, 2016 at 4:11 pm

    I’ve seen some burlesque shows before. We have a group in my city that puts on shows. And sometimes the main girl puts on workshops and classes, so everyone else can learn if they want!

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      Paula
      June 16, 2016 at 10:35 pm

      How fun – I would love to give burlesque a try. ­čÖé

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    CourtneyLynne
    June 15, 2016 at 5:15 pm

    I went to a burlesque show years ago!!!! There use to be able down the street that had shows once a week and I had to see what it was all about lol… Z it was definitely a neat experience

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    alexandria
    June 15, 2016 at 7:50 pm

    I am sure burlesque can leave one feeling super vulnerable. I actually grew up dancing with a girl who know does burlesque dancing in Vegas. Very classy and she’s really an amazing dancer.

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    OrlandoStrong, OrlandoUnited ⋆ Burlesque Stripped Down - Burlesque Stripped Down
    June 15, 2016 at 11:02 pm

    […] On a slightly higher note, I was also interviewed this week on a podcast called Jump Start Your Joy with the fabulous Paula Jenkins. […]

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    Mardene Carr
    June 18, 2016 at 6:07 am

    I would love to see this in action one day because I think it is a very sensual thing. Right up there with pole dancing

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